Category: Personal Growth

Self-Sabotage: The Outcome of All Addictive Habits

After reading the title, you might be thinking, “Well isn’t that obvious; nothing new here”, and I would agree.  But what if I added, all habitual behaviours that keep you from healing and growing are addictions.  What is your response…

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Freedom: What Does It Mean To You?

Do we have free will?  Or, are we human pieces of a greater puzzle being enacted by the ever-evolving universe?   Not neither nor either?

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Unlimited and Unconditional Love

Over the holiday season I had time to ponder a subject near and dear to my heart — love.  More specifically, the question that interests me most — What is love, really?   Several years back, I wrote a blog on…

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On Being Human — Joy is An Inside Job

In last week’s blog, I wrote about the five layers that comprise a human being — physical, energetic, mental/emotional, spiritual and joyful (my label).  Much of my discourse focused on human energy, that invisible but felt experience of life force,…

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Human Energy — Use It Don’t Abuse It

From a yoga perspective, our complex human makeup involves five layers of “being” in the world — physical, energetic, mental/emotional, spiritual and joy (my label). The more elusive layers of being human — energy and joy — are less well known and less studied in the western world of medicine and science.  Nonetheless, both are just as significant as their counterparts.

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Living and Staying in Your Genius

Over the span of my consulting career, I met several people who illustrated the ability to envision new opportunities within environments where deadends were all that seemed possible.  In essence, these individuals used their intuition to disrupt existing limitations and…

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ACE Your Life — Alleviate Compulsive Experiences

Image by Dan In my past 30 years of personal growth, it became obvious that transforming fear into joy first meant relinquishing my addictions.  Or, as Dr. Daniel Sumrok states, abandoning my ritualized compulsive comfort-seeking. When thought of as comfort…

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Charisma — for Coercion or Collaboration?

During a recent conversation (thanks Deri and David), I discovered the elusive nature underpinning the compelling attractiveness of charisma.  Interestingly, the three of us agreed its presence was recognizable within seconds of meeting someone.  However, after researching some standard definitions on…

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Be Happy or Be Normal?

In order to be happy, have you spent your life resisting social pressures to be normal?  Has anyone said to you, “Why can’t you be like everyone else?”  I can certainly relate having elected not to be a wife or…

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Gatekeepers for Dialogue — Truth, Kindness, Necessity

(Hyde Park Gate image by Phil Bird) During the elevated emotional and verbal vitriol of the American mid-term elections, this Arabian proverb came to mind — The words of the tongue should have three gatekeepers: Is it TRUE?       …

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Mindfully Cultivating Confidence

At various times in our lives, each of us experiences the feeling we could do anything we desire.  It’s a powerful and uplifting sensation, so much so, we can usually recall the last time we felt this way.  Conversely, we…

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Tipping from Confusion into Certainty

When was the last time you experienced confusion?  We all know that feeling of not being able to move forward on a project or make a decision to act.  Maybe we are racked with self-doubt or simply lacking the knowledge…

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