Category: Transformational Coaching

Force Is Not Our Way — Choose Deep Collaboration not Command and Control

Alas, once again a militaristic, command and control style of governance is prevailing over Indigenous and Canadian relations.  Early Monday morning, the Ontario Provincial Police (OPP) arrested demonstrators at the rail blockade in Tyendinaga Mohawk Territory, near Belleville, Ontario. The…

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Good, Good, Good – Good Vibration: Test Your Vibes!

Harry Chapin: image by Cindy Funk All matter is merely energy condensed to a slow vibration.  Bill Hicks Brian Wilson‘s 1966 song lyrics, “I’m pickin’ up good vibrations, she’s giving me excitations.  Good, good, good – good vibrations,” eludes to one of…

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Lessons on Love

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.William Shakespeare Somewhere between 1564 and 1616, Shakespeare wrote the words above.  If I were to read between his lines, I would suggest he was  advising us to lead with love.  Given…

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Mad Woman Laughing: Poetry for the Spirit

Madness, as in the theme of my soon-to-be-published poetry book, is a relative experience.  For instance, the three weeks leading up to Xmas day can be fraught with the chaos of gifts to buy, trees to adorn, lights to hang…

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Behaviour — Biology or Belief, Nature or Nurture?

In his 10th edition of The Biology of Belief, Bruce Lipton (2015) draws “the proverbial line in the sand” when he states, “On one side … is a world defined by neo-Darwinism, which casts life as an unending war among…

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Finding Balance In an Out-of-Balance World

In the end, it’s all a question of balance. Rohinton Mistry, A Fine Balance, 1995 One of my greatest life lessons could be simplified to “all things in moderation.”  In my case, choosing the path of moderation literally pulled me…

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Back to Basics — The ABCs of Control

The level of structure that people seek always is in direct ratio to the amount of chaos they have inside.     Tom Robbins, Skinny Legs and All As with any behaviour, in its extreme, control becomes dysfunctional and even delusional. …

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A Deep Collaboration in the Making?

Photo:  Ai Weiwei’s Forever Bicycles alludes to the Forever Brand of bicycles that flooded China’s streets during the artist’s childhood yet remained financially out of reach for many. We must all suffer from one of two pains.  The pain of…

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Love or Fear; Peace or War: Choose Wisely

When the chips are down, I can attest from personal experience that one of the hardest decisions we face in life is choosing whether to walk away or try harder.  Think of a situation (climate change, etc.) or a personal…

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