Tag: personal growth

3 Relationship Realities — Values + Compatibilities + Authenticity

Over the years, my happiness and satisfaction within interpersonal relationships was determined by our shared values and compatibilities including the ability to authentically communicate what is meaningful to us.  Fundamentally, sharing a set of core values — moral or spiritual…

Helen Maupin

Life Cycle Design — Is Yours Conscious or Unconscious?

In our ever-changing complex world, rethinking traditional problem solving methods has become necessary. Complexity has brought an inability to count on what once were tried and true solutions because the emerging problems themselves are hard to control and wicked in nature.…

Helen Maupin

Self-Leadership — Leading in One’s Own Life

What does it mean to you to be a leader in your own life? Much like the variety of definitions in the business world, how we each view leadership is likely to be varied and dependent on our personal experience.…

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Letting Go is All About Liberation

You have to let go of everything to know you need nothing. My forever friend Millie  For someone whose life-long “tap root” has been power in all its many manifestations — abuse of, dominance over, arrogance toward, giddy with too…

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Cultivating Collaborative Conversations — Spirit-to-Spirit

In our truth, we all wish for heartfelt communication with family, friends and coworkers.  I call these spirit-to-spirit conversations.  However, even the most articulate and sensitive of us can let our emotions run wild and lose control over our ability…

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What “Else” Matters — No Matter What

Two weeks back, I promised to finish my list of what matters most on a path of peace, love and joy. This is a fitting subject for a day where I am entering my seventh decade of living. On these…

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“WHAT” Matters — No Matter What

When I was leaving my 30s and entering the journey through mid-life, I remember feeling great uncertainty as I pondered what my life purpose was, what brought me joy and how I would find these answers.  A good friend and…

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Right Thoughts, Right Words & Right Deeds Change the World

Be the change you wish to see in the world. Mahatma Gandhi When Gandhi spoke these words to the world, he was encouraging us to choose a path of wisdom as opposed to a path of fear. In his interpretation…

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Transformation — From Accuracy to Altruism to Authenticity

It is my experience that whenever I set out to change some aspect of myself, whether behaviour, belief or being, my awareness of my behaviour is just the first step in my transformation process. Although I am inspired by my…

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When to Leave and When to Stay

Not so long ago, a friend struggling in his relationship with his significant other asked me “How do I know if it is time to leave a relationship or to stay?” An obvious answer to his question would be “Leave…

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To Judge or Not To Judge

Judging a person does not define who they are.  It defines who you are. Are you from the school of thought that espouses non-judgment when interacting with others?  If so, you likely have come to this choice because, at least…

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Response-ability — Awareness versus Consciousness 

Recently I wrote in a yoga article (published by the Winnipeg Free Press), in order to be happy no matter what emerges, we need to strengthen our positive response-ability. Ultimately, this means finding our centre (our true nature) and staying…

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