Tag: truth

Truth Telling

We now know that perception dictates reality, and for many, reality is seen as truth. During conflict mediations I tell my clients, truth is coloured by perceptions, desires and beliefs. Thus, there are as many truths in any given situation…

Helen Maupin

Love’s Secret

My heart is full having shared a Folk Festival virtual viewing with dearly loved friends. Note the Folk Festival wrist bands. This welcome gathering was safely allowed due to 10 days without the appearance of new COVID-19 cases. In the…

Helen Maupin

Alone and Lonely? Three “Tried & True” Cures for Both

In order to discover what his constituents’ health concerns were, Vivek Murthy, former US Surgeon General, went on a “listening tour” to many of his American communities.  The stories he heard, in answer to his question “How can I be of help?”, uncovered what Murthy coined as a loneliness epidemic.

Helen Maupin

Are You a Destination Addict?

Image by Tuomas Lehtinen freedigitalphotos.net Beware of destination addiction:  The idea that happiness is in the next place, the next job, or even with the next partner.  Until we give up the idea that happiness is somewhere else, it will…

Helen Maupin

Insane and Invulnerable

There comes a time in one’s wisdom or life’s journey where healing personal wounds is outgrown and replaced by concern for the collective woundedness of humanity and the planet at large.  These shared or universal wounds — poverty, pollution, oppression,…

Helen Maupin

INNER Space: The Real ‘Final’ Frontier

As you may have already gathered from the title, this ain’t no sci-fi fantasy, but I might fondly classify it as a space odyssey. From childhood, my life pilgrimage has always been pre-occupied with space. Isn’t everyone’s? Hmmm, maybe on…

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Discovering Your Blind-Spots

Transformation occurs when we are able to expose our blind spots and release the unconscious but conditioned default patterns associated with them.  The challenge is how do we become aware of what we don’t yet know about ourselves. My last…

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Living and Staying in Your Genius

Over the span of my consulting career, I met several people who illustrated the ability to envision new opportunities within environments where deadends were all that seemed possible.  In essence, these individuals used their intuition to disrupt existing limitations and…

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Gatekeepers for Dialogue — Truth, Kindness, Necessity

(Hyde Park Gate image by Phil Bird) During the elevated emotional and verbal vitriol of the American mid-term elections, this Arabian proverb came to mind — The words of the tongue should have three gatekeepers: Is it TRUE?       …

Helen Maupin